The recent viral story of a Gurugram-based software engineer has sparked a vital conversation about the financial and mental load in modern marriages. Despite earning a high salary of ₹26 lakh a year, the man struggles to make ends meet, saving only ₹15,000 a month after covering significant expenses like rent (₹40,000), groceries (₹30,000), car EMIs (₹16,000), and child-related costs (₹50,000).
The post, shared by Chartered Accountant Piyali Parashari, highlights his quiet resentment over being the sole financial provider while his wife has not worked since their marriage. This situation, where one person carries the entire financial burden, sheds light on the often-unseen struggles within a partnership.
As Parashari noted, “Marriage isn’t about dividing roles—it’s about multiplying strength.” This sentiment resonates with many, challenging the traditional notion that a high income alone guarantees a stress-free life. Instead, it suggests that a true partnership involves shared responsibility, mutual support, and a collaborative approach to financial and life goals.